Lesson 23: “The Lord Be Between Thee and Me For Ever”
Reading 1 – 1 Samuel 18:1-4
Reading 2 - Elder Neal A. Maxwell wrote: "When we are struggling to learn to
love, we can have faith in God's developmental plans for others as well as for
ourselves. Then we do not feel threatened by those who are our superiors or who
are becoming such. The more unselfish we are, the more able we are to find joy
in their successes, all the while rejoicing without comparing. In any case, our
only valid spiritual competition is with our old selves, not with each other.
True love and friendship enable us to keep that perspective. The things about
other people that truly matter are their qualities such as love, mercy,
justice, and patience, and their service to others." (Not My Will, But
Thine, p70)
Reading 3 – 1 Samuel 18:5-12
Reading 4 - President Ezra Taft Benson said: “Saul became an
enemy to David through pride. He was jealous because the crowds of Israelite
women were singing that ‘Saul hath slain his thousands, and David his ten
thousands’ (1 Samuel 18:7; see also 1 Samuel 18:6, 8).
1 Samuel 18:28-29
Reading 5 - Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, speaking of the
resentment of the older son when the prodigal son returns and was welcomed by
his father, said: "Who is it that
whispers so subtly in our ear that a gift given to another somehow diminishes
the blessings we have received? Who makes us feel that if God is smiling on
another, then He surely must somehow be frowning on us? You and I both know who
does this - it is the father of all lies. It is Lucifer, our common enemy,
whose cry down through the corridors of time is always and to everyone,
"Give me thine honor."
It has been said that envy is the
one sin to which no one readily confesses, but just how widespread that
tendency can be is suggested in the old Danish proverb, "If envy were a
fever, all the world would be ill" (Jeffrey R. Holland, "The Other
Prodigal," Ensign, May 2002, pp. 62,63).
1 Samuel 19:6
Reading 6 – 1 Samuel 20:1
1 Samuel 20:3
Reading 7 – 1 Samuel 20:4, 16-17
1 Samuel 20:23
Reading 8 - Elder Neal A. Maxwell wrote: Can one expect
human relationships to be deep and lasting sources of purpose and meaning
without having truth at their center? Can there be friendships such as the
friendship of Jonathan and David outside the context of absolute values? We
read that "Jonathan was knit with the soul of David"; these two
individuals "made a covenant." (See 1 Samuel 18:1-3.)
Reading 9 – 1 Samuel 23:7-10
1 Samuel 24:3-7,10,12
Reading 10: President Spencer W. Kimball said: "The
spirit of revenge, of retaliation, of bearing a grudge, is entirely foreign to
the gospel of the gentle, forgiving Jesus Christ." (Teachings of Spencer
W. Kimball, p105)